Why Chinese Men Rarely Date Western Women

Considering how much foreign guys seem to like Chinese women, it's not often that you see a Western woman with a Chinese guy. (Image:  Nguyen Cuong via  flickr  CC BY 2.0 )
Considering how much foreign guys seem to like Chinese women, it's not often that you see a Western woman with a Chinese guy. (Image: Nguyen Cuong via flickr CC BY 2.0 )

Considering how much foreign guys seem to like Chinese women, it’s not often that you see a Western woman with a Chinese guy. Here are some suggestions as to why from a blogger writing a satire piece on the China Daily Forum. Any element of truth or are they just racist stereotypes, you decide.

Chinese men are shy

Even in Chinese colleges a lot of Chinese men do not talk or chase girls  they are shy.

Chinese boys are spoiled

The One Child generation has been affected the worst, they are used to their parents getting everything for them. Parents buy them a house; parents introduce a wife to them. Surely foreign women, who are usually independent, would never go with such a guy.

Chinese boys are too busy studying and men are too busy working

They don’t take time to admire women walking by. Foreign guys will always pause to take in a voluptuous lady walking by or wave, nod or even bow. As such, Chinese guys do not notice foreign women in their midst just like they don’t notice Chinese women.

Parents must invest a considerable amount of time and money into schooling, extracurricular activities, and outside tutoring, often for college-entrance and English proficiency exams. (Image: via pixabay / CC0 1.0)

Chinese boys are too busy studying and men are too busy working. (Image: via pixabay / CC0 1.0)

 Chinese men are racially insecure, especially when compared to Caucasians

It’s the same reason why foreigners are paid more for the same job in China; it’s why foreign guys get the girls and why Chinese men don’t dare go after the foreign ladies.

Chinese men are traditional

Traditional people usually aren’t open-minded and will cut on romance and public displays of affection–generally a very integral part of a foreign woman’s fantasy.

Chinese men cannot speak English well

Many foreign men come to China and quickly learn the pick-up lines, and many Chinese girls speak excellent English anyway, so it’s a perfect match. However, Chinese men are more Sinocentric linguistically speaking and often uncomfortable speaking English, and this obviously doesn’t help them with the foreign ladies.

Traditional people usually aren't open-minded and will cut on romance and public displays of affection–generally a very integral part of a foreign woman's fantasy. (Image: pixabay / CC0 1.0)

Traditional people usually aren’t open-minded and will cut on romance and public displays of affection–generally a very integral part of a foreign woman’s fantasy. (Image: pixabay / CC0 1.0)

Chinese men love to save money

Chinese people are inclined to save to buy a house. Foreign guys will spend most of what they earn and will go for top clothing brands or eat at fancy restaurants. That difference is huge in terms of romance.

Chinese guys are relatively less social and outgoing

For a billion people, Chinese night clubs are too empty on average and since most foreign ladies hang out there, and Chinese men don’t go to them, so they don’t get to meet the ladies.

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