For many, the thought of being a parent is scary, and if you’re already one, the idea of failing at it is also scary. I think the reason you are scared is because you really want to do it right, so you hope one day you will be completely sure you are ready for it. But the only way to know if you are is by doing it.
Don’t get down on yourself if things don’t seem to be ideal.
There are many ways to be a parent.