Top Chinese Birthday Traditions and Tips

Traditionally, Chinese people do not celebrate a birthday every year; rather, birthday celebrations in the form of elaborate banquets are reserved for the elderly and infants. (Comedy_nose/Flickr)
Traditionally, Chinese people do not celebrate a birthday every year; rather, birthday celebrations in the form of elaborate banquets are reserved for the elderly and infants. (Comedy_nose/Flickr)

Chinese people calculate a person’s age according to the lunar calendar (Yīn lì in Chinese; 陰曆) without zeros, meaning that a newborn’s age is one. Traditionally, Chinese people do not celebrate a birthday every year; rather, birthday celebrations in the form of elaborate banquets are reserved for the elderly and infants.

The very old and very young receive special consideration, because in Chinese culture, the elderly are held in very high esteem, and it’s a family’s responsibility to preserve the bloodline with succeeding generations. Following are some of the top Chinese birthday traditions and tips.

Birthday names:

•    Integral birthdays: Birthdays in which the age contains the digit 9, which are called the “big celebration,” or “Dà qìng” in Chinese (大慶); or birthdays in which the age contains the digit 0, which are called the “formal celebration,” or “Zhèng qìng” in Chinese (正慶).

•    Scattered birthdays: Birthdays in which the age contains the digits 1 through 8.

The most important birthdays:

A child’s first birthday is very important, and can be celebrated on either the lunar calendar or the Western calendar (陽曆 Yáng lì). Usually, the parents will put on a big banquet for family and friends. Long noodles (長壽麵 in Chinese, Cháng shòu miàn in pinyin)are always served up, as they represent long life, as well as red dyed eggs, which represent happiness.

A fun tradition on the first birthday is to lay out a variety of items, such as a pen, a stamp, an abacus, a flute, etc. The first item that the child grabs indicates his future career.

For example, the abacus means that the child will become a successful businessman, while a pen indicates that the child will grow up to be a writer. This Chinese birthday tradition is called “drawing lots” (抓周 in Chinese, zhuā zhōu in pinyin), and originated in the Three Kingdoms period.

Sixty is an extremely important age because it is considered an entire life cycle. At age 60, the Chinese zodiac sign of the year, including both the animal sign and elemental zodiac, is the same as one’s year of birth. The elemental zodiac is a 5-year cycle, representing the five elements — metal, wood, water, fire, and earth.

A large banquet for a 60th birthday is usually prepared, and long noodles and peach-shaped dumplings are always served.

Traditional birthday foods and gifts:

•    Children and the elderly: Long noodles, which symbolize longevity, and red-dyed eggs, which represent happiness.
•    Elderly: “Peaches,” which are actually steamed dumplings in the shape of peaches.
•    Children: Red envelopes with money in them.

Tip: Do not give a clock as a birthday present to a Chinese person. Clock is pronounced the same way as death!

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