Considering how much foreign guys seem to like Chinese women, it’s not often that you see a Western woman with a Chinese guy. Here are some suggestions as to why from a blogger writing a satire piece on the China Daily Forum. Is there any element of truth, or are they just racist stereotypes? You decide.
Chinese men are shy
Even in Chinese colleges, a lot of Chinese men do not talk or chase girls — they are shy.
Chinese boys are spoiled
The One Child generation has been affected the worst; they are used to their parents getting everything for them. Parents buy them a house, and parents introduce a wife to them. Surely foreign women, who are usually independent, would never go with such a guy.
Chinese boys are too busy studying, and men are too busy working
They don’t take time to admire women walking by. Foreign guys will always pause to take in a voluptuous lady walking by, or wave, nod, or even bow. As such, Chinese guys do not notice foreign women in their midst, just like they don’t notice Chinese women.
Chinese men are racially insecure, especially when compared to Caucasians
It’s the same reason why foreigners are paid more for the same job in China; it’s why foreign guys get the girls and why Chinese men don’t dare go after the foreign ladies.
Chinese men are traditional
Traditional people usually aren’t open-minded and will cut on romance and public displays of affection — generally, a very integral part of a foreign woman’s fantasy.
Chinese men cannot speak English well
Many foreign men come to China and quickly learn the pick-up lines, and many Chinese girls speak excellent English anyway, so it’s a perfect match. However, Chinese men are more Sinocentric, linguistically speaking, and often uncomfortable speaking English, and this obviously doesn’t help them with the foreign ladies.
Chinese men love to save money
Chinese people are inclined to save to buy a house. Foreign guys will spend most of what they earn and will go for top clothing brands or eat at fancy restaurants. That difference is huge in terms of romance.
Chinese guys are relatively less social and outgoing
For a billion people, Chinese night clubs are too empty on average, and since most foreign ladies hang out there and Chinese men don’t go to them, they don’t get to meet the ladies.